Friday, September 29, 2006

Oakland A's WIN the American West Division


Oakland A's (my favorite team since I was a kid) won the American West Division! They will move hopefully towards a final victory in the World Series. If they do not win that I would still be thrilled with what they have already achieved! What an incredible year for the A's so far. To read more about their capture of the American West title please click on the link title in blue. Robert Pedersen

Very Proud of Jim Semerad, Dr. Ross, M.D. and Dan Diebolt

Very few times in my life have I every been so proud to have worked with individuals such as you three. I was amazed at how well we ALL worked together as a group. This is the first-time that I am aware of that all of us came together united for the same cause. All three of you simply amaze me and once again I am very proud to know you all! Please do not leave your leadership positions for some time b/c Michigan needs your leadership right now and this is the largest and most organized we have ever been. We are becoming a political force as proved by the primaries. I would go into "war" by your side at any time with zero hesitation. Thank you again. Special thanks to Dan Diebolt for getting this rolling. Special Thanks to those mothers, fathers, grandparents and more that took the day off and realized how important it was to attend this. We need to do this on weekends as well…we need to be in their face till they get worn down by us and not the other way around. In the end we willprevaill because we are on the side of the children and all we are asking for is EQUAL time with them. The more non-custodial mothers and fathers that are made, the more step-parents of both genders and grandparents will walk by our side. I was impressed by the number of women and also grandparents there. So many tears I saw when walking from person to person talking about their own stories. In the end my children will know me as who they have always known me as - a terrific Dad who cried from happiness when they came into my life. A Dad who has always been good with them, loves them, guides them, teaches them and worries about them. I will not have to tell them a thing - when they are old enough they will see the truth just based on her family's history and how she continued this cycle of pain, control and destruction. Sometimes at night I will lay in bed unable to sleep because of missing them and pray for them. All I ever wanted was 50% of the time. It is so painful waiting 6 days to see them during the school year. My heart cries out to them! My own son age 4 has already told me in his own words how sad he is that he can not see me. He tells me he is afraid to tell his mommy this. He is right in the middle and this is so very sad. Thank you again for everything to all three of you!

Robert Pedersen (and Angela Pedersen, R.N.)
www.squidoo.com/fatherachildsright

Jim Semerad, Dr. Ross, M.D., Dan Diebolt, Robert Pedersen, Richar Farr

Michigan EQUAL Parents Week Rally Picture Video



This Video will be re-edited to include more pictures late Sunday evening. Thank you to all of you that attended the Michigan EQUAL Parents Week Rally. A Child's Right: EQUAL time with BOTH fit parents.

Wednesday, September 27, 2006

Robert Pedersen and David Levy


What an honor! Robert Pedersen of "Father": A Child's Right www.fatherachildsright.org and David Levy C.E.O. of the Children's Rights Council. This impressive organization was founded by David Levy Esq and has expanded beyond the U.S. and is now expanding internationally as well. Robert and David Levy are pictured having fun at the EQUAL Parents Week Rally held in Lansing, MI. David Levy gave an exceptional speech. We were also very proud of Robert Pedersen when he was given recognition for organizing this HUGE event along with Jim Semerad, Dr. Ross, M.D. and Dan Diebolt. I was so proud of my husband when he gave his brief presentation at the very end of the event. Besides Robert's parents and grandparents - David Levy is one of Robert's most admired. Many more pictures to come as well as a DVD of the event! Thank you for your support of www.fatherachildsright.org and for attending the Rally! It had the impact we expected and more.

A few pictures from the Michigan Rally

Richar Farr of KRightsRadio.com holding Carol's Book! Richar you inspire many and give many hope. Thank you. You were incredible.
Robert Pedersen and Carol Rhodes, author of "Friend of the Court Enemy of the Family". We had the honor and privilege of driving Carol to/from the Rally. Thank you Carol!

True Leadership - Dan Diebolt - Michigan Fathers4Justice

MORE PICTURES FROM THE MICHIGAN EQUAL PARENTS WEEK RALLY COMING SOON!

PHOTOS BY ANGELA PEDERSEN, R.N. - CO-FOUNDER AND PRESIDENT OF "FATHER": A CHILD'S RIGHT www.fatherachildsright.org

Thank you to EVERYONE WHO ATTENDED!

A www.fatherachildsright.org website visitor sent us this letter regarding Shared Parenting in Michigan

Dear Mr. DeRoche,
I am writing you with my request regarding house bill 5267 regarding joint custody of minor children. I think this bill is the first logical, right, fair and needed bill regarding child custody to be available for the house to consider. My reasons are very personal as my son had a child born with a young woman and they decided not to marry. They both wanted to raise this boy and both hired very expensive lawyers to try and prove themselves the most fit parent to raise the child. It cause much grief for both families. During the waiting periods, it became clear to them that they were being manipulated by their attorneys (both who wanted the child for their client and really didn't care what was in the best interest of the child). Many things were said in court that had been misinterpreted or misstated by lawyers. My son and his friend decided they could decide themselves what would be best. Yes they bickered for awhile, but then they seriously realized that their boy needed his mom and his dad. They went to court and asked that he be awarded to both parents, and the judge was happy to assign both joint legal and physical custody. This has been the case for thirteen years now. My grandson has two families that love him dearly. He has four parents that adore him and they are able to be together for everything that involves their son, sports, school, special events. They split holidays and they work around their schedules to accommodate each others family events (birthdays, etc.) It is so wonderful knowing that my grandson does not have the stress of missing a parent, or parents fighting over time with him. Every parent should be able to raise their child. The court can help these kids by making joint custody the first priority in custody disputes. Parents learn how to communicate with each other if they truly have the childs best interest at hand. Needless to say, in the case of abusive parents, the courts should be able to change the custody arrangements, but I truly believe that the joint custody of my grandchild has opened my eyes to the necessity of changing the system that leans so much towards Mom raising the child and Daddy getting to visit his child. It isn't normal and it isn't right to continue in this manner. Please support this bill and encourage the other representatives to do the same. Thank you for considering my request. Linda - A Michigan Voter


Robert Pedersen
http://www.squidoo.com/fatherachildsright

Monday, September 25, 2006

The documentary that will change everything!

When this movie is released I am personally going to buy a copy for my son and daughter for when they grow older and are mature enough to watch this movie. This documentary will change everything!

To watch the trailers please visit: http://concepts.clearspringdesign.com/support/

Please buy this movie: Support System Down

Log line: A documented view of family law and the child support enforcement issues that affect American families.
Support? explores the fundamental flaws in America’s child support system. As told through over 38 interviews with both custodial and non-custodial parents, and the attorneys, judges and county employees on both sides of the paradigm, Support? gives audiences a firsthand look at parents' ongoing torment over the child support enforcement issues that affect their daily lives.
Scenes in Support? includes men and women being jailed for not paying child support orders; testimonials of judges and lawyers in the child support system who see what the affected families go through every day; dozens of stories told by non-custodial parents who are claim to be experiencing psychological and emotional trauma in not being able to see the child they are financially supporting; parents who rely on child support and are grateful for a system that helps them to raise their children; and advocates for reform, some of whom claim to have proof that a large percentage of child support proceeds collected NEVER reach the child in question.
The footage in Support? urges audiences to ask questions such as: How can the judicial system continue to charge a man with child support even when the paternity test comes back negative? Why aren't custodial parents held accountable for how their child support is spent? How accurate is DNA testing and why do courts sometimes decide not to use it? Why is the child support enforcement system, although necessary, so archaic in its laws, and what's being done to reform them? Why are non-custodial parents automatically labeled as deadbeats, jerks and losers, while stuck in a vicious cycle of arrears, incarceration, humiliation, and worst of all, loss of their relationship with their child?
As Support? follows the lives of the victims caught in this web, viewers will also see heartwarming cases where compromise has brought resolution within families - including a man who is reunited with his son after 15 years.
Support? focuses on the following four states: Texas, one of the highest collecting states; Massachusetts, for the aliens and non-U.S. citizens affected by the enforcements; California, and its focus on the military angle; and New York, for its melting pot of ethnicity.
Support? intends to be suggestive, informative, educational and relevant for the thousands of custodial and non-custodial parents who suffer emotional and financial hardships due to a child support system that is broken. Support? shows how the abuse of an already broken system is ultimately felt by and carried over to the children of our country, which the system was intended to help.
Watch as the "feminist movement" and the "men's movement" FINALLY come to an agreement on who and what they believe is behind all of this mayhem.
P.O.W...jailed in the U.S.A...Learn how our men and woman who fight and die for our freedom everyday are effected: When a man returning home after being held for months by IRAQ forces is ARRESTED and JAILED the night he gets off the plane for failure to pay.
Is this justice...or is someone else getting RICH from the misery of others?
You are the judge...Who do we really SUPPORT?


Movie Home page: http://supportthemovie.com/
Trailers are best viewed here: http://concepts.clearspringdesign.com/support/

Robert Pedersen
To my son and daughter - You can always count on Daddy!
www.fatherachildsright.org

Sunday, September 24, 2006

VIP List for Upcoming Michigan Equal Parents Week Rally Sept 27th

* Stephen Baskerville, Ph.D, President of the American Coalition for Fathers and Children
* Rev. Ruben T. Ellis, Ordained Minister, Community Leader and Social Advocate
* Richar' Farr, Radio Anchor and Founder of www.KRightsRadio.com
* Bill Hall, Attorney and Candidate for Michigan Attorney General
* Rep. Jacob Hoogendyk, Michigan Representative for House District 61, Member of House Family and Children Services Committee and Co-Sponsor of HB5267
* Jamil Jabr, National Coordinator Fathers-4-Justice United States
* Mark Klein, M.D., Physician and United States Presidential Candidate
* Phil Holman, Attorney and Former President and Board of Director National Congress for Fathers and Children
* David L. Levy, Attorney and Founder and Chief Executive Officer Children's Rights Council
* Rep. Leslie Mortimer, Michigan Representative for House District 65, Member of House Family and Children Services Committee, and Primary Sponsor of HB5267
* Michael T. Ross, M.D., Physician and President of the Family Rights Coalition
* Jim Semerad, Chairman of the Dads and Moms of Michigan PAC
* Tim Wahlberg, Candidate for United States Congress Seventh District
* Jerry Zandstra, Ph.D, Former United States Senate Candidate
*Robert and Angela Pedersen, Co-Founders of "Father": A Child's Right

We anticipate roughly 1,000 people will attend the EQUAL Parents Week Rally Sept 27th Noon-2PM Lansing, MI Lansing Capitol East Lawn. This will be an incredible event and the speakers are experts and nationally known. Come and learn why children that have Equal time with both parents perform better in school, stay away from drugs, and have a better overall self-esteem.
Best, Angela Pedersen, R.N. (This is a personal post and the views contained within it do not necessarily pertain to our entire organization's viewpoints.)

Monday, September 18, 2006

A Magical Day!




Sunday, September 17, 2006

Congrats! Angela and Robert

I am posting this for Angela and Robert. We were told the wedding was amazing and the day was perfect! The outdoor ceremony was very beautiful and there was also a perfect breeze. They both wanted to thank everyone for their support of this organization and also in them as a couple. I was sent some of the wedding pictures of Robert and Angela and they were perfect! Typical Robert and Angela both had massive smiles. Congrats again to you both. Always smiling and always laughing that is the Robert and Angela I have become close friends to since joining this organization. Congrats again to the Pedersens!

Saturday, September 16, 2006

Happiest I have ever been!

Dads,
My mom and dad always told me growing up that as Pedersen's we live by the motto "Never Never Quit"! This is incredible advice. If you have gone through a rough custody battle and divorce, in many cases you will hit rock bottom in other areas of your life. In fact, it is very common for men to lose their job after a long extended custody battle. There are many reasons for this which can be discussed at another time, but the key to always remember is that things will get better. In fact, I am TRULY the happiest I have ever been in my life with the exception of losing time with my incredible son and daughter! BUT MAKE NO MISTAKE ABOUT IT, THE PAIN OF NOT HAVING MY KIDS 50/50 IS VERY PAINFUL AND THAT WILL NEVER BE ERASED NOR FORGIVEN.

There is someone out there that will make you feel the way Angela does for me. When you hit rock bottom you probably dated a few different people and this is what I regret most. If you are dealing with the pain of losing time with your children it is very difficult to chose someone to date that is not a nut case or similar to your ex-wife. Try to use this time to heal even though it is comforting to have someone by your side.

I will soon be married for all of the RIGHT reasons, unlike before. Angela and I have been friends for many years and this makes the relationship so much more incredible. I am not getting married because she became pregnant (she is not but just an example), I did not meet her on some online dating website or in a bar, I took my time in truly deciding who was best for me and my children. Thank God she thinks we are the best for her!

Angela is so smart and she challenges me this way! I love it and it gives us a ton to think about. She is not just a Nurse but she is a nurse that performs very advanced procedures and works in a critical and skilled unit. If my children and I ever had an emergency she would be calm, cool and would respond in a way that would save our lives. I hope this never happens obviously! Angela is very genuine and not fake. She does not have a history of jumping from one relationship or family to another...very stable person mentally. She is tender and very loving to my children and that was the most important thing for me. On top of myself she wil be an incredible role model. Every day I look at her I can not believe that someone like her exists...she amazes me in too many ways to even begin to write them down. Her beauty is both internal and external. My family adores her beyond anything I have ever seen or witnessed. In fact, my dad just wrote me an email about Angela and how much the family loves her.

Angela took on an incredible load knowing the high drama that comes from my ex-wife. Never once has she bad mouthed my ex-wife in front of the kids, this is unlike someone I had dated previous to Angela. I respect her for this so much. I lost my job and Angela and I have struggled very much in trying to make all of our required payments plus the $1,200 a month for child support. Typical and similar to the entire divorce and custody battle a TEMPORARY reduction in support was fought by the ex. This is NOT common! I am still current on support and we struggle to make our payments on very basic things. The kids always come before us when there is anything left of her check and my unemployment check. I am not ashamed of losing my job and in the end it has proven to be the best thing that has happened because I am soon to take a position with another company that pays roughly what Abbott did and has better benefits. In addition to that this job will allow more flexibility with my kids and I will not have to work the insane hours I did during respiratory season. Losing my job with Abbott has been better for me and the kids now that I have landed this new job still in pharma sales.

I will always have severe pain from the loss of time with my children. However is this happens to you, NEVER NEVER QUIT! I truly have found a best friend and a life partner and very soon even a better job. I adore and respect Angela and am I proud to soon call her my wife. She has stood by my side and has always believed in us. This is the Pedersen way. I honestly thank God for her EVERY DAY. With the exception of my children and losing time with them I am the happiest i have ever been in my entire life. Do not ever give up! Our organization offers support as well as several others...in fact I have met some incredible friends that will also last a lifetime through these support groups. Hang in there everyone and remember to attend the rally. IT WILL BE HUGE! Robert Allen Pedersen

Friday, September 15, 2006

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Sunday, September 10, 2006

Michigan Equal Parents Week Rally Sept 27th Noon-2PM

To all of our many readers! My parents are coming to this rally and that is just another example of how everyone can make a difference. They are coming to the rally to support me and also in support of my children. Both myself and my parents have less time with the children than before because of a divorce and custody dispute. This is not fair to my children or for any child for that matter if the father desires to be in the child's life.

My parents coming is a strong statement! They are both in their mid to upper sixties and my mother has arthritis that sometimes gets bad and my father is just recently feeling on the "up" from having surgery for cancer. I have a sneaking suspicion that their presence at the rally will be well documented. It is important that you ask your family members to also attend this rally. I think one of my brothers is also driving a great distance to attend this rally as well.

Stayed tuned for a list of VIPs that will be attending this rally! There are some HUGE nationally known folks that will be attending this rally. There will also be numerous politicians as well, a documentary film maker, a nationally syndicated radio talk show host, and many many more! This post will be coming soon so please check back frequently. Please join us for this Michigan EQUAL Parents Week Rally on Sept 27th Noon-2PM Lansing, MI Lansing Capitol East Lawn. A professional PA system will be set up and their will be numerous speakers to update us all. There will be thousands of pairs of children shoes indicating the children who by no choice of their own are essentially eliminated from their father's (most cases) lives. We are confident that there will be OVER 1,000 people attending. We have several RVs packed with people coming from other states as well. Even Canada! Please take the day off of work and have your family members join as well. I will be speaking to the press for sure and if I can get a copy of it I will feed it to this Blog. Thanks a ton everyone! Robert Pedersen www.fatherachildsright.org

Saturday, September 09, 2006

Repeal the Bradley Amendment by Phyllis Schafly

Repeal The Bradley Amendment

by Phyllis Schlafly Mar. 1, 2006

When our supposedly compassionate federal government pokes its nose into areas that, under our principle of federalism, should be none of its business, the result is often unintended consequences, gross injustices, and of course massive costs. A prime example is the 1986 federal Bradley Amendment, which mandates that a child-support debt cannot be retroactively reduced or forgiven even if the debtor is unemployed, hospitalized, in prison, sent to war, dead, proved to not be the father, never allowed to see his children, or loses his job or suffers a pay cut.
The result of this incredibly rigid law is to impose a punishment that makes it impossible for any but the very rich to get out from under a Bradley debt. Thousands of fathers are sentenced to debtor's prison (a medieval practice we thought America abolished centuries ago), and thousands more have their driver's license confiscated (making it extraordinarily difficult to get a job).

There is no requirement that, if and when the Bradley debt is paid, the money be spent on the children, or that the debt be based on an estimate of the child's needs, or even that the so-called children actually be children (some states require the father to pay for college tuition). The Bradley debt is misnamed "child support"; it is a court-imposed judgment to punish men and extract money from them to support some mothers and a $3 billion federal-state bureaucracy.

Take the case of Larry Souter as reported recently in the Grand Rapids Press. He was released after spending 13 years in prison after being wrongly convicted of second-degree murder.

He was then summoned to court to explain why he should not be convicted of contempt for non-payment of his Bradley debt that kept rising during his years in prison: $23,000 in back support plus interest and penalties that raised the total to $38,082.25. The ex-wife's attorney argues that Larry should pay because she "has endured the substantial burden of raising her two children without defendant's contribution of child support."

Since the children are now adults, this case proves that the Bradley debt has nothing to do with child support. It has to do with court-ordered transfer payments from which the state gets a cut.

This case is not an anomaly. Clarence Brandley spent ten years in prison before he was exonerated and released in 1990, whereupon the state hit him with a bill for nearly $50,000 in child support debt that accumulated while in prison.

Many other cases prove that men cannot escape the Bradley debt even if DNA proves that they are not the father. The law even forbids bankruptcy to alleviate the Bradley debt.

Three years ago, a Maine court ruled that Geoffrey Fisher no longer had to pay child support for a child that wasn't his. But Maine nevertheless demands that Fisher pay $11,450 in back child support and Maine took away his driver's license for failure to pay up.

The Bradley debt makes no allowance for the growing problem of paternity fraud committed by mothers, estimated by some to be up to 30 percent of DNA-tested cases. Our compassionate government demands that a mother seeking welfare identify the father of her child and, like greedy lawyers, greedy women often target the man with the deep pockets.

A few states have passed a recent law to end so-called child support if DNA proves a man is not the father, but that doesn't get rid of the Bradley debt accrued before DNA results came in. We haven't heard of any women being prosecuted for paternity fraud, and of course the man who was cheated doesn't get any refund.

There is no excuse for Congress and state legislatures allowing these injustices to continue. Court-ordered child support should not be final until DNA proves paternity.

Feminist defenders of the Bradley Amendment claim that the Bradley debtor could have reduced his debt by going into court and challenging the amount of support when his income decreased. That argument is legalistic cynicism taken to the extreme.

Most Bradley debtors cannot possibly afford a lawyer to advise them about and to defend their rights, yet they are up against government or government-paid lawyers; the system has built-in incentives to set the support as high as possible because collections bring bonuses to the state bureaucracy; and, according to the Los Angeles Times, roughly 70 percent of fathers in L.A. County are not present when the court (not biology) rules on paternity and irreducible monthly obligations are set in concrete.

President Bush's initiative to promote marriage is a non-starter so long as the Bradley Amendment exists. Who would marry a man with a Bradley debt hanging over his future?

Shakespeare famously wrote, "The evil that men do lives after them; the good is oft interred with their bones." Since the author of the Bradley Amendment, former Senator Bill Bradley (D-NJ), is still alive, he should tell his pals in the Senate to terminate his evil law before any more injustices take place.

Friday, September 08, 2006

Michigan EQUAL Parents Week Rally Sept 27th 2006 Noon-2PM Lansing, Capitol East Lawn

PLEASE JOIN US ON SEPTEMBER 27TH 2006 09/27/06 Noon-2 PM FOR A EQUAL PARENTS WEEK RALLY! LANSING, MICHIGAN CAPITOL EAST LAWN.

Rally coordinated by: Dan Diebolt, Dads and Moms of Michigan, "Father": A Child's Right, Family Rights Coalition of Michigan, Children's Rights Council, Fathers 4 Justice and many more! "The Best Parent is BOTH Parents"!
EVERYONE IS WELCOME IN MAKING MICHIGAN FAMILY FRIENDLY! WE WELCOME FATHERS, MOTHERS,CHILDREN, STEP-MOMS, STEP-DADS, UNCLES, AUNTS AND ALL NON-CUSTODIAL PARENTS! PLEASE CONTACT dandiebolt at yahoo dot com or volunteer at fatherachildsright dot org FOR MORE INFORMATION.

For directions:http://michigan.gov/documents/gethere_14067_7.PDF

Let's make Michigan family friendly for both parents and children. For the dangers of sole physical custody please visit Children's Rights Council - Dangers of Sole Custody For the benefits of Joint Physical Custody please visit Benefits of Joint Physical Custody

A recent American Psychological Association published study has demonstrated that having both parents sharing in the raising of their children gives these children a better chance at life. Here is the website link for your perusal: APA STUDY. This "study" published in 2002 ( by Robert Bauserman, PhD.) titled "Child Adjustment in Joint Custody versus Sole Custody Arrangements: A Meta-Analytic Review". Its actually a very objective summary of over ten studies done over the last ten years . The Bauserman article in fact, implicitly , refers to those parents who see their children less than 25% as sole custody arrangements. The article , in general, does not have good things to say about sole custody arrangements. Conflict was factored into the summary and formed part of the studies. Bauserman acknowledges that not all studies tested the effect of conflict but some studies showed that if a joint custodial schedule were implemented early in the process, conflict was dramatically reduced. Other studies showed that it was the sole custody arrangements which reported the highest conflict. (p.97-99) Family and children experts tell us that its not about the "perfect parent" ...its about a healthy association with both parents! On pages 97-98 of the Bauserman study it says:"Based on these results, children in joint custody are better adjusted across multiple types of measures, than children in sole (primarily maternal ) custody...This finding is consistent with the hypothesis that joint custody can be beneficial to children in a wide range of family, emotional, behavioral and academic domains."The American Psychological Association (APA) supports joint custody. No objections to shared parenting holds up against the APA's review of all joint custody studies and reports. Joint Physical "Custody" arrangements are recommended for the children by the latest, most authoritative APA summary in their recent exhaustive review of all the relevant studies. The APA Summary found that joint "custody" arrangements result in "increased father contact and involvement with children," reduced parental conflict, and reduced litigation and costs.

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Thursday, September 07, 2006

Sept 27th EQUAL Parents Week Rally Lansing, MI Noon-2PM